Wierd Question Number One - Dating
Wednesday, October 8, 2008 @ 6:28 PM
From now on, I plan to post a wierd, random question about basically anything that's on my mind every once in a while. So, about every two weeks, or maybe it will be a monthly "feature" to make things a bit more interesting.
Here's the first one:
Would you go out with yourself if you would belong to the other gender (but your 'current' self would exist, as well)?Personally, I wouldn't. I would argue too much with myself, and "we" would eventually get bored of each other. But we could be great friends. You know, the other me would be like a gay friend. (I'm not schizophrenic, just for the record).
So, these are my main reasons. But what are yours, if you chose the same answer as me?
Do you think you miss something important as a lover? (*Raises hand* I do. I just can't stay with the same person for more than 6 months. Which doesn't mean I'm a slut, but things still get complicated thanks to this... erm, characteristic of mine.)
Do you think you would/could change this for the sake of love? Or do you have other reasons?Well, this turned out to be a rather short post, but whatever. At least I
did write something today! (Because honestly, I'd love to post everyday, but that's absolutely impossible for me, since my life is getting pretty busy - because of my doings. But I just can't leave things as they are, leading a robotic lifestyle, so doing the same things everyday makes me sick!)
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Flirtig is The Key!
Wednesday, September 24, 2008 @ 3:56 PM
Some days passed without blogging because my life is way too exciting nowadays. Which means, that I have many things to (go to school, try to get in another school - besides the one I'm attending -, decide which sports to take, and become a better person, blogger and designer). Makes everything much harder. Wish I'd be a person with sloth attitude, but unfortunately I'm not.
So, back to blogging about reasonable stuff. (Although I'm sure that I can count my readers on one hand. But it makes me feel relieved that I can help them, at least. Or something like that.) I decided to write some posts about love in the future. That's an important part os SG's lifes, too, after all. So I'll start with flirting. Useful thing.
Be confident! Guys love girls, who are not
that shy, and confidence makes you look and feel good at the same time. Anyway, always be yourself. If you act like another person, he will eventually find it out, and that won't make things easier for you. Besides, I'm sure you want to find a guy who loves you for yourself.
Touch him often, for example when talking. You can be playful, too, but don't get annoying by doing the same things over and over again.
Get to know him (better). Talk about anything that comes to your mind - family, pets, hobbies, plans, dreams, favourite things, interests, etc. This helps you open your eyes if he isn't the person you thought he was, or make you feel more interested in him. I guess it's a win-win situation.
A new look can help a lot. Go to the hairdresser, or just start wearing make-up. This will grab his attention, and you can
start giving him the signs. Look him more in the eyes, and smile often. Make him laugh, and feel comfortable around you. Compliments are a must - these may make him realize that you are into him.
Finally,
find the right time to ask him out (or make
him ask
you out!), when no one is around. If he rejects you, don't get depressed. Start hunting again, and practice, practice, practice! If he is glad to go out with you, be happy, and do your thing!
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